Anand Hi Anand

प्यारे बच्चो इस धरती पर आप आए  हम माँ बाप के जरिये  न की हम माँ बाप के लिए  बस इतना याद रखिये  Dear Children You came to this planet Through us  Not for us  Just remember this much  गर भूल जाये बात ये हम  तब अपनी मासूम मुस्कराहट से  जगा देना हमें कहकर की  इस धरती पर हम आए  आप माँ बाप के जरिये  न की आप माँ बाप के लिए  If we forget this truth Then with your innocent smile Awaken us with sweet words We came to this planet Through you  Not for you गर हम थोपने लगे  अपने सपनो का  भार आप पर  तब अपनी मासूम मुस्कराहट से  जगा देना हमें कहकर की  इस धरती पर हम आए  आप माँ बाप के जरिये  न की आप माँ बाप के लिए  If we forcefully impose on you The burden of our dreams Then with your innocent smile Awaken us with sweet words We came to this planet Through you  Not for you ...

Rulers of the history have left a significant impression on DNA of most of the fathers to play the role of a giant figure at home who is responsible to define everything for everyone in the family. Fathers of the history have transferred this DNA to their generation and therefore we are witnessing great generation gap since many decades. Most of the time it is observed that a father is more of a deadee (deadly evil). Many sons and daughters do respect their father not with love but through fear. Right from the beginning the personality of daddy is shown as deadee by himself as well as all other members of the family. Hence right from the childhood a child is learning that a father is a deadee who has to be feared only. Mothers play a significant role in making the reality of deadee in child’s mind and heart. Fathers have been considered as gurus of “discipline” the stake holders of discipline who have to pass discipline to the generation. Force and fear are only two ways through ...

A radical reformation is observed in last few decades that mothers have become mummies. Now why a child will share anything to a mummy (who is also dead being with deadee)? A child has no other option but to go out of the way and find out someone else to share the inner core. So mummies it is time for you to radically transform yourself into a mother. The sound energy of mother starts with the letter M (*ma*) and ends with the word Other (M-Other). My other self is mother. So a child is exactly your other self that is you only. How will you behave with other self? How will you treat your other self? Only pondering on these questions will not help you really you have to come into action because the next step after thinking is to act on the thoughts. Therefore the work has to begin with yourself. Changing you will change your other self that is your child. If your child is stubborn then you need to bring change in your stubbornness. If your child is shy then you need to eradicate y...

Any holiday in school whether it is Sunday or any festival or vacation time is HOLY day for children but HELL day for parents. Most of the parents have the following list of complain for their children: - Not listening - Very stubborn - Not eating properly - Very hyper active - Very shy - Not disciplined - Always watching television - Not interested in studies or going to school - Disorganized - No table manners - No respect - Short tempered - Always arguing *Your learning begins now * And the list can go on and on… If you are a parent and reading this article then right now pick up pen and paper and list down the qualities of your children and see whether you can list 100+ if not then please understand that you have not observed, understood and felt your child. Therefore you don’t have any right to complain against children. If you can list 100+ qualities that means you will have all the answers of all above list of complains and you will withdraw all y...

Whether you are a single parent or a couple the understanding of art as well as the science of parenting is for every parent father, mother, single father, single mother, ex-father, ex-mother. It is observed that globally more than 600,000 people are searching about parenting related information every month and this number is increasing. Why is it so that people are searching information about parenting? There are millions of schools and yet parents have to search information on Internet? This is indicator that still things are missing in schools. Still things are missing in family too. Still things are missing in relationship between children and parents. We have to accept this fact. No argument can deny that schools cannot replace parents. Yet parents can replace school for sure and unschooling, deschooling and to an extent homeschooling movements are the proofs to humanity. What is the art of parenting? It has no relationship with being a “Good Par...