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The art and science of parenting


Whether you are a single parent or a couple the understanding of art as
well as the science of parenting is for every parent father, mother, single
father, single mother, ex-father, ex-mother. It is observed that globally
more than 600,000 people are searching about parenting related information
every month and this number is increasing. Why is it so that people are
searching information about parenting? There are millions of schools and
yet parents have to search information on Internet?
This is indicator that still things are missing in schools. Still things
are missing in family too. Still things are missing in relationship between
children and parents. We have to accept this fact. No argument can deny
that schools cannot replace parents. Yet parents can replace school for
sure and unschooling, deschooling and to an extent homeschooling movements
are the proofs to humanity.
What is the art of parenting? It has no relationship with being a “Good
Parent”. It is more about performing your role as a father or a mother in
creative ways. It is all about carrying your responsibilities without
interfering in the natural learning process of your children. Most of the
time it is observed that there is a great amount of interference from
parents just for the sake of proving themselves adults, experienced people
and to establish authority.
The art of parenting lies in dissolving authoritarianism. That is to
respect and accept children as they are. The art is about allowing children
to grow in their own pace and not in diverting children into the process of
becoming someone. The entire process of becoming someone kills the creative
growth of children. The actual art is in helping children to be rather then
become. Their being is more important then their becoming. This is the art
of parenting.
The science of parenting is not about imposing your “Rules” “Regulations”
and “Do’s and Don’ts” but it lies in understanding the nature, learning
styles, intelligences, expressions, skills, emotions, feelings, thinking
styles, abilities, capacities and potential of children. It is more about
participating in the growth and learning process of children as a
co-learner and not as some imposer or expert or a teacher or a guru or any
authority.
The science of parenting is in pondering about the purpose of giving birth
to your child. It is about asking to your mind, heart and soul that what
inspired you to extend your family. Is it to fulfill ego of your potency,
is it because since generations this is happening so you are also
following, is it that you want to have some future security from your
children that they will take care of you when you will get old? Find out
the root and if the root is corrupted with above logics then it is time to
heal this corruption by learning the art and science of parenting.
This combo package art and science of parenting will help you as a parent
to bring more clarity about the purpose of your life. The day you conceived
your child since that day the art and science of parenting also were
conceived in you so you don’t have to find any coach for learning the art
and science of parenting. You need to awaken yourself.

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