“I am thirsty and water is available to me. So whenever I want to drink water I get it, my hands reach to the glass of water and I fulfill my thirst instantly. In the same way there are many other things that I really want I am getting it instantly but why can’t I get what I really want and desperate about? Why can’t I get that I really am willing to get in my life?”
If you are encountering the above situation then you are invited to read further or else the words framed in sentences here will be really irrelevant to you.
The simple law of manifestation in life is, “Think, feel, speak about what you want and don’t think, feel and speak about what you don’t want” if we put it into practice then realization will happen, till then it’s all theory, assumption which you call “NOT REALITY”. So when things or beings you want in life are unavailable for you then the time for you to unlearn.
Unlearning attachment towards wants and unlearning possessiveness towards what you want. Next step is to relearn the difference between “want” and “need”. So that which you really really really want in life is it your want or need please reflect deeply. Also kindly check what you really “want” is it your genuine asking or you are asking just to fulfill some of the lusty, selfish, greedy desires?
When you don’t get what you want that indicates you are not ready to receive it. Your receiving mode is blocked. This means on one hand your mind is telling you., “I want this in my life” and on other hand your mind says, “But I can’t have it because bla bla bla…” This way your mind gets convinced that there is no possibility of getting what I want.
Your mind creates all the logic and rational of why can’t you get what you really want. Therefore you yourself are responsible for creating block by being in non-receiving state with all your assumed logics and rationales.
Most of the rationales are laid down with 3 following beliefs:
- I can’t have this (thing or being) because I don’t deserve it.
- I can’t have this (thing or being) because I am unlucky or it’s not in my destiny.
- I can’t have this (thing or being) because of my circumstance.
When one is convinced about the above beliefs one generates faith in this beliefs and this faith works as manifesting ingredient in life. This results into manifestation of what you really don’t want in life or you end up with not getting what you want.
The roots of any and every “want(s)” are greed and passiveness whether you agree or disagree. Let your mind be at peace and meditate on what is said about roots rather than analyze or judge or synthesize or criticize (by putting aside the skeptic view).
The thought with an emotion of ‘not having enough’ when it is instilled inside our subconscious mind with the following statement “I can’t get what I want” then this thought is converted into REALITY as subconscious mind is an automatic system for manifestation. So actually you have to erase this command from your subconscious mind “I can’t get what I want” and replace it with “I receive everything (and being) in my life that is needed for my growth smoothly”.
The question “Why” I am not getting what I want comes from subtle ego. Every question that starts with WHY and HOW has its root in subtle ego. Once again a gentle reminder for you that kindly don’t analyze, judge, synthesize or criticize on what is said about subtle ego. The day you will stop asking WHY and HOW and surrender your mind to your soul miracle will happen.
Many people say that surrender is difficult then here is the simple process:
1. Choose anything or being that you really want to manifest in your life
2. Frame a positive statement with positive emotion for that which you want to manifest. [i.e. You want to manifest perfect health in your life then your statement will be “I am becoming better and better every moment, my health is aligned and every moment I feel energetic”.]
3. Allow this statement to become your belief by repeating it thousands of times with feelings.
4. When the statement enters to your belief zone then from here you need to take it to your faith zone. Belief is to mind and faith is to heart and soul. Mind leads to duality while heart and soul leads to oneness. Therefore any belief can be shaken up but when that belief is converted into faith then it is unshakable.
5. From faith ignites the feel of surrender. When your awareness towards this feel of surrender is extended then you are on your way towards manifestation.
So kindly erase this question “Why I can’t get what I want” from your subconscious mind and replace it with “I am open to receive everything and being in my life that will make my life healthy, loving, peaceful and blissful”.