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Be a father

Rulers of the history have left a significant impression on DNA of most of the fathers to play the role of a giant figure at home who is responsible to define everything for everyone in the family. Fathers of the history have transferred this DNA to their generation and therefore we are witnessing great generation gap since many decades. Most of the time it is observed that a father is more of a deadee (deadly evil). Many sons and daughters do respect their father not with love but through fear. Right from the beginning the personality of daddy is shown as deadee by himself as well as all other members of the family. Hence right from the childhood a child is learning that a father is a deadee who has to be feared only. Mothers play a significant role in making the reality of deadee in child’s mind and heart. Fathers have been considered as gurus of “discipline” the stake holders of discipline who have to pass discipline to the generation. Force and fear are only two ways through ...

Be a mother

A radical reformation is observed in last few decades that mothers have become mummies. Now why a child will share anything to a mummy (who is also dead being with deadee)? A child has no other option but to go out of the way and find out someone else to share the inner core. So mummies it is time for you to radically transform yourself into a mother. The sound energy of mother starts with the letter M (*ma*) and ends with the word Other (M-Other). My other self is mother. So a child is exactly your other self that is you only. How will you behave with other self? How will you treat your other self? Only pondering on these questions will not help you really you have to come into action because the next step after thinking is to act on the thoughts. Therefore the work has to begin with yourself. Changing you will change your other self that is your child. If your child is stubborn then you need to bring change in your stubbornness. If your child is shy then you need to eradicate y...

Learning for parents

Any holiday in school whether it is Sunday or any festival or vacation time is HOLY day for children but HELL day for parents. Most of the parents have the following list of complain for their children: - Not listening - Very stubborn - Not eating properly - Very hyper active - Very shy - Not disciplined - Always watching television - Not interested in studies or going to school - Disorganized - No table manners - No respect - Short tempered - Always arguing *Your learning begins now * And the list can go on and on… If you are a parent and reading this article then right now pick up pen and paper and list down the qualities of your children and see whether you can list 100+ if not then please understand that you have not observed, understood and felt your child. Therefore you don’t have any right to complain against children. If you can list 100+ qualities that means you will have all the answers of all above list of complains and you will withdraw all y...

The art and science of parenting

Whether you are a single parent or a couple the understanding of art as well as the science of parenting is for every parent father, mother, single father, single mother, ex-father, ex-mother. It is observed that globally more than 600,000 people are searching about parenting related information every month and this number is increasing. Why is it so that people are searching information about parenting? There are millions of schools and yet parents have to search information on Internet? This is indicator that still things are missing in schools. Still things are missing in family too. Still things are missing in relationship between children and parents. We have to accept this fact. No argument can deny that schools cannot replace parents. Yet parents can replace school for sure and unschooling, deschooling and to an extent homeschooling movements are the proofs to humanity. What is the art of parenting? It has no relationship with being a “Good Par...

Why can't I get what I want?

“I am thirsty and water is available to me. So whenever I want to drink water I get it, my hands reach to the glass of water and I fulfill my thirst instantly. In the same way there are many other things that I really want I am getting it instantly but why can’t I get what I really want and desperate about? Why can’t I get that I really am willing to get in my life?” If you are encountering the above situation then you are invited to read further or else the words framed in sentences here will be really irrelevant to you. The simple law of manifestation in life is, “Think, feel, speak about what you want and don’t think, feel and speak about what you don’t want” if we put it into practice then realization will happen, till then it’s all theory, assumption which you call “NOT REALITY”. So when things or beings you want in life are unavailable for you then the time for you to unlearn. Unlearning attachment towards wants and unlearning possessiveness towards what you want. Next ...

The Secret Revisited Part-2

I received many complements from people who have read The Secret Revisited. With complements I also received questions which was obvious and I was very much ready for it. “How do we constantly keep thinking and feeling positive?” Think and feel positive constantly simple why so much complication hahahaha:). Well apart from jokes here are some points to be noted: - Thoughts are exactly like seeds. - Feelings are exactly like earth/water/sunlight - If you put a seed in plastic jar will it grow? Obviously no. So when you have a thought which you don’t entertain with feeling it will not GROW it will GO. - So anytime if negative thought comes let it GO rather then GROW by adding NO feelings. - Suppose a negative thought comes and negative feelings just churned up resulting in growing your thought then follow the below process. - Sit down. Close your eyes. Be aware of your entire body from top to bottom. Come back to your breath. Take 15 deep, long and slow breaths and then in your...

The Secret Revisited Part-1

Since past couple of months atleast 1000 people came to me and shared: “I have read The Secret and understood Law of Attraction. I applied also but I am getting reverse effect. I get negative result after trying it. Why is it so?” The first basic clarity is that there is nothing like trying. Quoting Sri Rupaji Anant “Do or Die there is nothing like Try”. If I ask you to pick up a pen lying on a table what will you do? There are two possibilities either you will pick up or you will not. Will you just shake your hands here and there and will you call it as trying? Calling shaking action as trying is naïve. Actually you are not picking up pen you are just shaking you hand here and therel. So either you are doing it or you are not doing it simple. When you say you tried applying law of attraction that means you have not done it at all. Hence trying is a sophisticated escape. Now let’s understand how this law works and you will understand how you are getting negative result. I h...

In the depth of my soul

In the depth of my soul I discovered unconditional love Spurring with oceanic waves To evoke like volcanic rivers Spreading in every directions Moving through hearts Touching every souls In the depth of my soul I unfold the riches of gratefulness To everyone who shared everything With the blessings comes true My heart wishes and prays To everyone who shared Be full of love, peace and bliss In the depth of my soul I found myself Standing in solitude With a prideful gesture Forgiving all those who have hurt And asking for forgiveness to everyone Whom I have hurt In the depth of my soul Silence prevails Nothing to ask and nothing to discover now The being is at peace With eternal bliss The being is transformed into love That is unconditional Shining like sun Whether the weather is cloudy or gloomy In the depth of my soul No words are lingering any more Nothing to give or receive…

Eternal Love

feeling the eternal love blossoming within you to grow like a tree with endless routes and fruits to flow like a river merging into ocean becoming clouds and again falling as rain in the desert… feeling the eternal companionship of being together forever beyond this birth till life and beyond death merged energies of yours and mine glowing like sunshine spread wings and flying in the cosmos of love… feeling the eternal bliss dancing like the creeper with the touch of breath bringing oneness forever to my soul diving in your soul with ease and compassion for the love eternal we are abide together forever…